With the current media representation of divorce, it can be easy to believe that the court favors women during a divorce proceeding. Men might feel disenfranchised and silenced in the courtroom, believing their rights are not being upheld. Although this may or may not be true, the general insecurity stems from many not knowing the rights allotted to them.
To answer the question “Are Divorce Laws Unfair to Men?”, the answer is no. They do not. Although a judge may have certain biases, under the law, men and women are both treated equally in a divorce.
However, it is important to inform yourself of your rights and to make sure the courtroom upholds them.
How Spousal Support Is Determined for Men
When it comes to spousal support, the court looks to ensure both parties can maintain the quality of life to which they are accustomed. Because of past traditions, society expected men to pay alimony because they were usually the main support in a relationship. However, with the changing times, women can easily be the main breadwinners. As such, they may also be required to pay spousal support.
When deciding alimony, the court looks at the standard of living a couple was accustomed to during their marriage. They then look at each party’s earning/earning potential, lifestyle, and general needs. Husbands can seek temporary, short-term, and long-term spousal support.
How Child Support and Custody is Decided for Men
When it comes to children, many people believe that courts favor women. This is not true. Fathers have the same rights as mothers when it comes to child support and custody. However, men do have to work against many common stereotypes such as absentee fathers.
During the divorce, fathers' rights include:
- Being involved in the child’s life
- Having a say in major decisions, such as where they live and religion
- Access to medical records
- Involvement in parenting and parenting plans
Protect Your Rights With a Men's Rights Divorce Attorney
In order to ensure fair treatment, you may need an experienced divorce attorney to represent you. At Family Law Advocacy Group, you can be sure that you have leading legal representation in divorce law. We have a board-certified family law specialist who can help you navigate the turbulent waters of divorce, prioritizing your rights and needs as a husband and father.
Contact us today for a free consultation and take a step towards your new future.